DEAR ABBY: The other night I had to go to the ER for severe knee pain. After being seen and released, I called my son to come and pick me up. It was 11:30 at night. Neither he nor my daughter-in-law answered the phone!

The next day, his wife told me they have full-time jobs. (Both work at the hospital.)

My grandson said his mom isn’t mad at me, but I feel so hurt. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.


DEAR NO RESPONSE: This unfortunate event should be a lesson for the future.

Have a talk with your son and daughter-in-law. The three of you need to come to an understanding about what should happen in the event you have a medical emergency. This includes not only who should provide transportation but also what kind of supervision you might need.

You should also have an advance directive in place that includes who should be contacted in case you are unable to speak for yourself.

DEAR ABBY: I left a manipulative and abusive marriage after 18 years. My parents fully supported my decision.

When I became engaged to the wonderful man who is now my husband, my mother and many other family members told me that second weddings were “not important” and I should have just gone to the courthouse.


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